The sacrifice of others is rather common.
Consider the great filmShrek, in which the vain but cowardly Lord Farquaad holds a tournament to select a knight to go on the princess-finding quest on his behalf. He tells the contestants, “Some of you may die, but that is a sacrifice I am willing to make.”
In both of these biblical examples, I have to wonder, What happened to “God is love”? I only see inexplicable cruelty.
1 John 4 reads, “Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.”
There must be some mistake, and perhaps it’s rooted in a misguided take on sacrifice. Indeed, as Jesus taught in John 15:13: “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” Not–get this–being laid down as were the victims Isaac and Jesus, but choosing to lay down, as in the Jesus whose death was not an act of violent spiritual payback but a willful statement against the powers of the world. (Perhaps equating Jesus with God makes the crucifixion a choosing, but the Bible strongly suggests the father-son relationship scenario. And don’t forget the Nephilim!)
Abraham’s act of “sacrifice” was as deranged as Farquaad’s, and God’s “sacrifice” of Jesus is as counter to love as it gets. Neither shows what Christians consider core: self-sacrificing agape love.
Now, I’m willing to be told I’m wrong in my discounting of these interpretations of events, but on a deeper level I think my supposed challenges to religious tradition are perfectly acceptable within biblical heritage. Indeed, the Bible is a story that considers a particular group’s history and formation–and shines because it is not propaganda. Even as it tells of the group’s “chosen” identity and special purpose, the Bible reveals the people’s failings, at times even with condemnation (see Jeremiah 22, Micah 1, and Mark 13:1-2).
The Bible’s own critiquing of the very people it touts as God’s chosen allows for–encourages?–critical questioning of its own contents. Its oft-gruesome tales, whose even watered-down telling in my daughter’s picture Bible require selective reading (I sure am not going to show her those pictures of Isaac on the pile of sticks or read to her that Jesus’ loving daddy stuck him up there to bleed), are part of a messy heritage whose narrative merits active readership and constant reinterpretation towards redemption and grace.
For that quest there is no high-and-mighty glossy marketing brochure–just a guiding text’s act of selfless sacrifice.